I ask you how many sorrows you can have, just like a river of spring water flowing eastward. I would like to advise you not to care too much about it, and to be free of some of the good. The past, let him be the past! In fact, as long as the knot will be opened, no longer for the past and grudging, those sad past and what is it!

Of course, if you want to, you can also try to pay back the grudges, for example, on New Year's Day with the birth parents and adoptive parents to visit. Anyway, after all, the former gave birth to you, the latter raised you. You might as well give it a try, maybe there are some benefits, and there's no telling.

What do you do when you are born as a girl, disliked by your birth parents, sent away, and treated badly by your adoptive parents?

Everyone has their own sadness and happiness.
You choose to live in sadness, and sadness magnifies and blinds you.
You choose to be happy and happiness changes your emotions, start pretending you are happy and slowly you become happy.

Don't always complain about fate, what fate takes away it also gives back to you.
Abandoned children don't always suffer, look for the reasons in yourself first.Because, happiness is not given by others, it is earned.If we talk about abandonment, I am also a child abandoned by the state in a poor mountain village. I can also compare myself with white-collar workers and all kinds of second-generation people and all those who are better off than me.

Did it work?

Wake up, it's all about bitter children and learning to love yourself. Love life. Love the times.
We are all grasses that thrive when given a little sunshine and rain.

You can do it!

Hi everyone, I'm glad to answer your question, my point is to love yourself well and don't think so much.

First of all, one should have self-confidence ambition! Drum up the courage, self-reliance, self-improvement ......, upward mobility, study hard! Courage to bear the course, and strive to be a woman of bitterness and sweetness 👩🏻

Adoptive parents, after all, to raise you to adulthood, you pay a lot of, you do not catty, must be the spring of reciprocity ...... party for the fundamentals of the human being!

You were given away at birth just because you were a girl, but it wasn't your fault. It's the older generation's patriarchal mindset that's at fault. So you should not feel inferior.

Even though your adoptive parents treated you badly, they raised you and now you have your own little family. You should be celebrating and feeling happy.

I have a coworker who was also given away at birth (I'm told she was sent to her foster parents wrapped in a very worn little quilt, and her foster mom was also a teacher). The difference between her and you is that her adoptive parents were very good to her, and she was good to her adoptive parents. She also has a younger sister and the sisters are very close.

Her real father, who was a farmer, visited her often and wore shabby clothes. Whenever her real father came to visit her, she would bring out the best food in the house to entertain him, and also give him some money or buy him something. Her adoptive mother, seeing how she took care of her biological father, would sometimes say with great emotion that this was a real father and daughter.

A person's mindset is major. Whether it's your biological parents or your adoptive parents, it's not your fault for what they did. For you, you are only as good as your life, living it to the fullest, being healthy and living your best self.

It's the same in every family. Life is a mess, and you can't make sense of the little oh-ohs that come and go. Don't be pessimistic. Think of the good in others, and it will do you good.

Look at some good, all the past, what wealth gift money, not your want not on, is your not run away, their own family is considered to be their (birth parents adoptive parents) to you have an account of their own things to do their own, but also a little better than those who do not have parents, over a look to let them look at them, live a good they do not look at you have to look at them in order to prove that their own is not a waste of money, remember that since they suffered to get to eat the fragrance of ！！！！

When humans are born, they are too weak to make any choices. Now that you are grown and have a family, it's time to make a good choice.

Keep looking back at the past and you risk losing the happiness that is right in front of you. Thank your adoptive parents for raising you, thank your biological parents for giving you life, say thank you sincerely in front of them if you can, or bow deeply to them in your heart if you are embarrassed.

Then, start taking good care of your little family, the birth parents gave you away so that you didn't experience the closeness with your parents, and this regretful feeling is sad that the adoptive parents didn't give it to you either. So love your children well and give them a happy childhood.

No matter how well the parents do, what you put together yourself is your own. If your parents can give, it's the icing on the cake, and if they don't, don't blame them, it will hold you back. In the future, you should rely on your own efforts with your loved ones, and that is the best example for your children.

Over out of this kind of thing really have, especially rural girls is going to be disliked and even discarded, poor poor ah! Hour no way to protest, people at the mercy of others, dead or alive in the hands of family (others) I understand! If you have a little self-care ability, first of all, to strive for self-improvement and self-supporting door to do a clear hall, let them see, women are also people without women in the world, ask them or the world? [angry] [angry] [angry] [angry]

Be thankful for the people who raised you. People need to be independent and get out there to see the future! Be a person with eyes and heart!