Is there any disease that comes from anger?
Hello, I am glad to answer your question. In fact, a lot of diseases have a lot to do with anger, and the effect of taking medication is not obvious. The following is to tell you what diseases are related to anger.
Liver is the general's official, the liver is the main detoxification, has the function of regulating qi and maintaining the balance of qi and blood in the whole body. Once the liver detoxification and excretory functions are dysfunctional, it will lead to a series of clinical diseases.
First, breast hyperplasia, breast fibroids, are because a lot of women long-term diet is not good, like to be angry, and always hold in the heart, and finally lead to liver qi stagnation, the middle jiao can not be blocked, stagnation of qi and blood stasis, the emergence of breast hyperplasia.
Secondly, liver disease, cirrhosis, liver cancer, etc., are because of long-term mood irritability and anger, depressed mood, liver qi stagnation, slowly will form liver disease.
Third, thyroid nodules, hyperthyroidism, are because of long-term emotional discomfort, liver qi stagnation, liver and stomach disharmony, resulting in the middle jiao blockage, metabolism slows down, thyroid hormone secretion, resulting in thyroid local microcirculation disorders, the emergence of thyroid disease. A lot of women are very prone to thyroid disease because it has a lot to do with their mood.
Fourth, indigestion, spleen and stomach disharmony, but also with anger, sulking, especially angry at mealtime, or eating time to educate the child, the child if the child cries, will lead to liver overgrowth grams of spleen, liver wood grams of spleen and earth, dyspepsia, spleen and stomach dysfunction of transportation and digestion, gastric distension and pain, gastrointestinal flatulence, hiccups, loss of appetite and other symptoms.
Fifth, headache and dizziness, high blood pressure, also because the liver fire, liver yang hyperactivity lead to headache and dizziness, dry and swollen eyes, insomnia and dreams, dry mouth and bitter mouth, and even high blood pressure.
Sixth, anxiety, depression and other mental illnesses, if long-term liver qi stagnation, upset and irritable, can not be completely cured, it will lead to mental problems, negligence of regulation, anxiety and depression will appear.
Of course, this is only a few of the aspects, in fact, many diseases are very angry with a close link, so that now began to advocate the physical and mental disease management, if not adjusted to the mind, will certainly affect the health of the body, as well as the recovery of the disease.
So, for the sake of your health, you must be aware of the need for psychological counseling and maintain a good state of mind.
I remember when I was in school, the first section of the psychology class, the teacher came up to give us an example, I still remember, said that in ancient times, there is a scholar, a litter of two healthy and the same weight of the white rabbit, respectively, in the temperature, size and other hardware conditions of the same two cages, fed to the same food.
The difference was only that a wolf was bolted next to one cage, and this little white rabbit faced the wolf every day, fearful and nervous, and after three days, visibly thin, and after a week, alive and scared to death. The other bunny, on the other hand, was healthy and alive.

According to domestic and foreign research on longevity of the elderly many times and statistical analysis, found that the centenarian longevity of the elderly have a common characteristic, whether living in the countryside or the city, longevity of the elderly cheerful personality, and are living in a harmonious atmosphere in the family, but instead of eating is not necessarily how much to pay attention to and how much nutrients, but also not necessarily every day to provide for how much exercise, and did not intentionally quit smoking and quitting drinking, and some even like to eat meat, never abstaining from eating. Never abstain from eating.
So, from this survey, we can see that longevity has a great causal relationship with mood and character, and that a good family atmosphere and a pleasant mood play a vital role in health.

Almost all diseases are related to emotions, which is not an exaggeration, but a further understanding of modern medical research on the human body. In fact, the relationship between emotions and health and disease, in ancient times, has attracted the attention of scholars, since ancient times, there have long been internal injuries to the seven emotions, anger hurts the liver, joy hurts the heart, thinking hurts the spleen, worry hurts the lungs, fear hurts the kidneys, it can be seen that the motherland medicine attaches great importance to the relationship between emotions and health.
There are many idioms to describe anger, such as angry hair, angry face white or purple, these are the external appearance of anger, in fact, anger on the body's internal organs are also important in the damage, such as anger, breathing is not as smooth as when happy, the muscles will be unconsciously in a state of tension, heartbeat accelerated and so on.

Although the mechanism of cancer, we have not been completely clarified, but long-term negative emotions, such as emotional depression, psychological unhappiness, etc., and the development of cancer has a great relationship, in this state of people, the chance of getting cancer is much higher than that of normal people.
Modern medicine shows that high blood pressure, irregular menstruation, bronchial asthma, arrhythmia, thyroid nodules, breast nodules and so on have a great deal to do with people's emotions. In recent years, physical and mental medicine has received more and more attention, and nowadays, the definition of people's health is no longer purely organic health, but both physiological and psychological health, in order to be considered as real health.

The body doesn't lie, it faithfully stores all our emotions for us, and getting sick is actually a reminder to get real about what we really need, deal with it appropriately, and trust in the body's abilities.
Take women as an example: often angry easy to get breast hyperplasia, husband and wife do not love each other, often gynecological diseases, such as long-term chronic vaginal inflammation and so on.
We often say, "I'm so angry", "I'm so stressed", "I'm so upset", which is exactly what emotions are doing. Anger makes people feel out of control, and the body automatically releases a lot of factors that are harmful to the respiratory system.

When we have all kinds of red rashes on our skin, like a small volcano erupting but not giving out, it's actually the body telling you, I'm angry, check out my angry heart.
Loving yourself is not just about living in the best house and eating the finest delicacies, it is about caring for your inner self, identifying and unraveling the root causes of what makes you unhappy on the inside, and striving to be at peace with yourself.
When we have a wide range of emotions, the first thing to attack is the body's immune system, and more than 70% of people will digest their emotions by attacking their own body organs, which is one of the biggest causes of developing illnesses.

According to the common testimony of experts, it is believed that frequent anger can cause these following diseases:
1, gastric ulcers, anger can cause sympathetic nervous excitement, and act on the heart and blood vessels, so that the blood flow in the stomach and intestines to reduce peristalsis, slow down, poor appetite, and in severe cases can cause gastric ulcers.
2, hyperthyroidism , anger will lead to hormone secretion disorders, which in turn cause endocrine disorders, endocrine disorders, hormone secretion disorders, will be an increase in the secretion of thyroid hormones, which in the long term will lead to hyperthyroidism disease.
3, pigmentation, when people are angry, the toxins in the blood will increase, and will stimulate the skin follicles, triggering inflammation, so that the skin pigmentation as well as the appearance of acne.
5, cerebral hemorrhage, angry, the human brain thinking often breaks through the routine activities, often will make reckless or aggressive behavior, abnormal behavior will form a bad stimulation of the brain center, the blood rushes up, seriously lead to cerebral hemorrhage.

6, myocardial hypoxia, angry when a large amount of blood rushing to the brain and face, will make the supply of blood to the heart to reduce and cause myocardial hypoxia; and when the angry hair, the blood flow in the muscle is higher than normal, resulting in a reduction in the blood supply to the heart, triggered by myocardial ischemia, arrhythmia, cerebral hypoxia, shortness of breath, and even sudden death.
7, heart disease, the study found that anger can lead to heart attack or acute coronary syndrome risk increased by 4.74 times, love anger heart disease patients mortality is increased by 24%.
8, hypertension, anger can cause high blood pressure, when people get angry when adrenaline secretion increases, making the patient appear obvious vasoconstriction, and the reason why the blood pressure rises, the main reason is due to small arterial spasms, resulting in increased blood pressure, and ultimately will cause hypertension.
9, mammary gland hyperplasia, people in anger often manifested in the ribs, breasts, abdominal distension, seems to have gas held inside. Often so, women can appear breast swelling and pain, breast hyperplasia; if in the post-partum, it is easy to mastitis; middle-aged and elderly people will even lead to breast cancer.

Written in the end: Many times, we thought that especially angry things, but in retrospect, really is not worth it, take a step back and give yourself a good atmosphere for others, not to be calculating, reasonable not in the voice of the high, just entered the community of young people, to understand their blood, we have been young, to the elders, to listen to their valuable experience and respect their opinions and suggestions.
Read more, deepen their own cultivation and attainment, listen to music to ease the troubles, the world is not both comfortable and wonderful life, a better future are blood and sweat down, want to be responsible for their own dreams, for the family responsible, we must manage our emotions, have a strong body.

In Chinese medicine, it is said that "anger causes Qi to rise" and "anger injures the liver". What it says is that anger makes the body's qi go upward and can damage the function of the liver. At the same time, the liver's physiological functions are abnormal and people are prone to anger.
Bad emotions such as anger and anxiety are harmful in every way.
Some people feel stomach pain after anger, this is because, in the tension, anxiety, anger, the body's adrenocorticotropic hormone secretion increases, gastric mucosa congestion and swelling, hyperactivity, gastric acid secretion significantly enhanced. In severe cases, stomach acid can also corrode the stomach wall and form ulcers.
It's no joke that some people get so angry that their breasts hurt. Certain breast diseases, such as breast hyperplasia, are closely related to depression, anger and other bad emotions. Secondly, it is also easy to cause menstrual disorders, dysmenorrhea, insomnia and so on.
Also, don't sulk, that is, on the surface as calm as water, the heart has already cut people a thousand cuts. Sulking is more harmful to the liver than losing temper. Many women get breast diseases related to liver depression. So, if there is gas can not be resolved or vent it out.
People who love to be angry must promptly regulate their physique, so that their body can restore the balance of yin and yang, qi, blood and fluids. You can consume some foods that have the effect of detoxifying the liver and relieving depression, such as Buddha's hand, roses, kumquats, etc.; go to bed early and get up early to ensure sufficient sleep; try to maintain a pleasant mood, and you can chat with your family or friends more often.
When necessary, you can find a professional Chinese medicine practitioner for physical conditioning, Chinese medicine using the method of liver detoxification to regulate physical conditioning, can help you restore the balance of yin and yang as soon as possible.
To give you an idea of my experience.
Before I got married, my health was very good, nothing wrong, eat well. But since I got married and gave birth to a child, my body has been hardened and sickened.
After giving birth in the hospital and staying there for a total of four days, I ate eggs in brown sugar water for four days. In the words of my mother-in-law, eating eggs in brown sugar water replenishes blood. When I returned home, I ate rice soup with fried buns, which was so clear that it couldn't be clearer. Nine days after the birth of my child, my mother's family came to see me, brought dozens of pounds of eggs, but my mother's family just went out, my mother-in-law sold all the eggs, and I did not see a penny of the money from the sale. I was angry with my husband nagged a few words, I did not expect him to be more forceful, said I have not seen the world when the elders of the meal to the younger generation of the meal, his mother served me to do the month, on the sale of eggs more than two hundred dollars I can see. I was so angry, the next day, I got mastitis, chest pain, accompanied by fever, had to go to the doctor in the month. The doctor said that the child should not take medicine during breastfeeding, let go home with a wooden comb dipped in hot water to scrape. When I got home, I asked my husband to watch the baby, and I just poured hot water into the basin, and my mother-in-law shouted that my husband didn't know what to do. Every word from my mother-in-law was holy writ to my husband. I said to my husband, wait until I finish shaving and then go over there. But all he said was, "You're the one who has too much to do every day. He threw the baby on the couch and went to his mom's house. What else can I say...
Later, my mom saw that I was always fried buns, very little milk, so she brought me a few old hens from home that she had raised herself, wanting me to drink chicken soup to get milk. I don't know what to say, but my mother-in-law said, "I don't know if I've ever heard of chicken soup, and I don't know how to make it," she said. I've never eaten any of this before when I was in labor. I've never eaten any of this since I was in labor.
After the child out of the full moon, just in time for the Chinese New Year, the family often come to find my husband to play cards, and in our living room to play cards, playing cards, their cigarettes are one after another smoke, so the house is a mess, and my husband said: let them in the future to play cards, do not smoke, the child is still small. Who knows that the mother-in-law heard and said: there are so many things, children should be trained from childhood, not so delicate. They are trying to train their children to inhale second-hand smoke from an early age.
Then I don't know what happened, but when the baby was over 50 days old, he was vomiting and having diarrhea. I remember once, my husband and his friends were playing cards, just when the child vomited again, and a lot of vomit, mouth, nose, all together out of the spray. I was so anxious that I shouted at my husband: stop playing, the child has become what kind of. Because of this sentence, my husband completely flipped out, and said three words that I still can't forget: can't die. Then he slammed the door and left. My mother-in-law even blamed me, said I did not give his son face in front of outsiders, but also pearly rain with my mom on the phone, said how I do not understand, children are inevitably some small illnesses, can not be taken seriously. Unsurprisingly, this time my mastitis is back ......
Until today, I couldn't get angry, and when I did, my mammary glands would grow hard and extraordinarily painful.
I had an elementary school teacher, beautiful and kind-hearted, with an ethereal voice, who was angered by her husband's breast cancer, and died less than a hundred days later, when her youngest child entered the house with a big belly and a high profile. Everyone went to her funeral to thank her for the last lesson she taught us with her life.

At the funeral, everyone was sad and silently wiped their tears, except for two female classmates who cried bitterly and vociferously. As a result, after attending the funeral, these two female classmates were divorced.
My elementary school teacher and her husband were in a free love affair, which was opposed by the family because of the big gap between the two families. The teacher's family became well-off in the 1980s, and her father was a leader in the county education bureau. Her father was the head of the county education bureau, while her husband's family was a poor household in the village.
She married her husband despite her parents' objections, even if she had a falling out with her family.
Her husband, when he married her, didn't spoil her like he did before, and when he had a drink, he made snide remarks about her.Counted her parents dog-eyed, hate the poor love the rich, wait until they are rich, have their time to regret.
After sobering up, she cried and confessed. The teacher's husband had no other skills, but a handsome face and a mouth to coax women.

Later, the teacher gave birth to a son and a daughter, relying on her salary to support the family is more and more difficult, her husband, this work two days that work three days, where not long. She could only beg her elder brother to take her husband to work on the construction site.
Finally, I do not know what her husband took what luck, but slowly in the construction site to do a long time, but also a little bit of their own contracting work, became a small contractor.
However, since his husband became rich, he has been away from home all day. He always says he's socializing, but in fact he's out drinking.
The teacher started to actually believe it, and slowly, there were always women calling her husband's cell phone, and she just didn't feel right. She angrily questioned her husband about what was going on.
Her husband had the audacity to say, "I have someone outside! Let's get a divorce! You can have the daughter, I'll take the son. The roots of our family can't go to someone else's house!"
The teacher was so angry that his blood was rushing up and his whole body was shivering together. I thought to myself: I must get a divorce. But not a word could be said, only to sit paralyzed on the floor.
But she is particularly reluctant, she has lived with him for so long in the hard life, and now the good life finally came, is it just give up the hand, let other women pick up the ready-made cheap.
Since the tearing of the face, her husband is more every day does not come back, the monthly living expenses are not given, every time to ask for must quarrel.

She saw his husband's circle of friends, all show love photos, either the husband hugged the young mistress, or mistress fed her husband. Angry, but the more so, the more she does not divorce.
After two years of this stalemate, the teacher, who had been sulking, developed a lump in her left breast and went to the hospital for a checkup, which turned out to be breast cancer.
The teacher cried a lot, figured it out, and wanted a divorce, but her husband seemed to have a clear conscience and refused to divorce her, promising her to return to her family and break it off with her mistress.
However, the teacher's cancer progressed too quickly and he still went away.
After leaving, less than a hundred days, Xiao San was pregnant and high-profile into the door. The two couples, also not too ashamed, in the village, a big ceremony, a big feast.
Everyone says: this is all a ploy by him and his mistress to stabilize my teacher from divorce, in order not to share the family property. It's really good intention! Just pity my teacher, so young, and was pissed off!
The teacher should have divorced at that time, so as not to gas himself out of cancer. In this also advise all sisters, in the face of unworthy feelings, less reluctant, quick and easy, their own happy than heaven! No one will pay for the death of a person who is angry!
The subject of this problem, in fact, is also a lot of people concerned about the problem, here "gas" can have a broad and narrow understanding of the two, the people understand is mostly narrow, that is, angry, a kind of expression of emotion, so here on this narrow sense of anger! For example, "I'm very angry", "I'm angry", "You've made me angry", "You've made me angry". "Look what you've done to XX."

This kind of "qi" is often related to "anger", in traditional Chinese medicine, "anger is injurious to the liver", "Suwen. Lifting pain theory" said "anger is qi, anger is qi reversal", referring to the depressed anger, anger can lead to liver qi upward or liver yang hyperactivity, headache, dizziness, red face, red eyes, and even vomiting blood, here is what we usually say, "qi of dizziness" This is the reason why we usually say "dizziness of anger" and "vomiting blood of anger"; red face and red eyes.

Said "angry high blood pressure" or "angry high blood pressure committed", can also be understood, red face and red eyes, indicating that the head of the blood increase, then the blood of the rest of the body is reduced, especially the lower part of the body of the blood, the upper part of the body of the blood vessels blood volume increases, the pressure on the walls of the blood vessels increases, that is, blood pressure increases, but if the person is angry at this time usually high blood pressure, arteriosclerosis in the brain vessels, it does not matter. The amount of blood in the blood vessels in the upper part of the body increases, the pressure on the walls of the blood vessels increases, that is, the blood pressure increases, just the blood pressure increases, it does not matter, but if the person who is angry at this time is usually high blood pressure, arteriosclerosis of the blood vessels in the brain is obvious, there is a possibility of rupture of the blood vessels, resulting in cerebral hemorrhage, in fact, this phenomenon is not uncommon in the clinic.

There are cases of "vomiting blood in anger" in the clinic. For example, if a cirrhotic patient has esophageal varices or fundal varices, when he gets angry, the blood pressure increases, resulting in arterial congestion, slow venous return, and the varicose veins in the esophagus and fundus burst, resulting in vomiting blood. This is actually easy to understand, just like when we go to the toilet to squat, hold our breath to increase the abdominal pressure, the blood vessels on both sides of our necks (this is the jugular veins) thickened significantly, only the jugular veins on both sides of the neck we can see, while the varicose esophageal fundal veins we can not see with the naked eye.

And the people say, "gas are gas full" "gas can not eat", which is also related to anger, which is also, gas is injured liver, liver depression and fire, liver fire against the stomach, this is the word of traditional Chinese medicine, in fact, with the Western medicine can be explained by the same, because we eat the meal Through the mouth, esophagus, stomach to enter the duodenum, small intestine, in the duodenum descending section of the jugular abdomen has a switch (medical terminology called sphincter), usually the food to this will stimulate the switch, the switch is open, then connected to the bile duct above the pancreatic duct (bile duct pancreatic duct communal opening) will be discharged to digest the food with the bile and amylase, chymotrypsin, insulin and so on.

This is like connecting a power line to transmit electricity, so that lights can be turned on and all kinds of electrical appliances can work. If you are angry, then the switch fails, the food arrives here, the sphincter does not open, then the food is not digested, naturally you will feel full and do not want to eat, so it is right to say that "you are full of gas" and "you can't eat the food".

There is also what the people say, "gas liver pain", "gas shivering", "gas hurts the liver", which all shows the close relationship between gas and liver, "liver main emotions", "liver is wood" on the five elements, emotions need to be fluent, just like trees, branches normally stretch, if the branches are curled up, it must be the tree has a problem, "liver is wood". Liver master emotions", the five elements "liver is wood", emotions need to be fluent, just like trees, branches normally stretch, if the branches are curled up, it must be the tree has a disease, emotions are the same, need to be like the branches of the tree as stretching, that is, fluent, if the emotions are not fluent, then the liver has a problem. This is also the reason why "a great deal of qi injures the liver".

The human body's qi and nature's qi is the same, we can't see the air, if the air does not flow we can't easily feel, but if the air flow, we can feel, the air flow to form the wind, we can see the wind blowing the branches of the trees fluttering with the wind; the qi in our body can't be seen, and we can't usually feel it, but the flow of this kind of qi we can feel it, that is, the head shaking and the hands shaking, and the head shaking and the hands shaking are the same as the tree branches swaying in nature, so "the body shaking with qi" is the same. The shaking of the head and the shaking of the hands are the same as the swaying of tree branches in nature, so that's how the "shaking of the body with qi" works.

When angry and depressed we may not see such obvious changes, but the smooth flow of the liver meridian qi is affected, and this will show up in thePituitary, thyroid, mammary, both hypochondria, uterus, ovariesLesions at places such asCysts, Tumorsetc., and the mammary gland can also add asupernumerary candidate (in imperial examation system)The two sides of the ribs refer to the sides of the ribs on both sides. The two ribs refer to the side of the ribs on both sides, which is sometimes referred to by the common people when they say "the ribs hurt when you are angry".

Therefore, we can see that anger is very harmful, so "don't get angry" is the way to solve these problems! How to do "do not get angry", we must be like those people worship the Bodhisattva, we must be like the Maitreya Buddha, who come to a face, who come to a smile, that is, "the big belly can tolerate the world's intolerable things", and so on.

Tolerance is very important, the world is so big, can not ask everyone and their own, to accept their own and other people's different, but also to accept others and their own different, it is so many different to have the world's colorful, if they are the same as their own, the world is not monotonous death, life is the process of cultivation, cultivation of every day to make themselves happy, cultivation of every day to make their own progress. We can not ask the world for us to change, but we can do to change to adapt to the world, to adapt to the society, really do to let themselves "know the unity of action", do not get angry with themselves; really do "and different", do not get angry with others.

What disease is caused by anger?
1. Cerebral hemorrhage: people in emotional excitement, anger, sadness, shock will be due to increased secretion of adrenaline will lead to the whole body blood vessels and muscle contraction, while the brain blood vessel contraction, resulting in abnormal blood supply to the brain, as well as the brain blood vessels have obstruction under the cerebral hemorrhage will be triggered by nerve damage, cerebral ischemia, hemiparesis, or even shock and life-threatening.
2. Cardiovascular disease: similar to cerebral hemorrhage, anger can lead to heart blood vessels in a state of rapid contraction, resulting in insufficient blood supply, the main role of the blood red blood cells is to transport oxygen, the amount of oxygen supply is reduced, palpitations, panic attacks, serious heart failure, cardiac arrest and other life-threatening shock!
3. Injury to the liver. When angry, the human body secretes a substance called "catecholamine", which acts on the central nervous system to raise blood sugar, strengthen the decomposition of fatty acids, and increase the toxins in the blood and liver cells accordingly.
4. Mammary glands: often angry people are prone to cause our body's hormones into a state of hyperactivity, the role is to lead to a variety of hormone secretion disorders in our body, and the human body once the endocrine disorders will lead to a series of organs to be harmed. For example, the mammary glands, such organs are mainly related to the endocrine level, long-term disorders, since it is easy to lesions!
5. Gastrointestinal diseases: anger will be due to increased secretion of adrenaline leads to the whole body blood vessels and muscle contraction, and the blood vessels in the stomach contraction will appear all kinds of discomfort such as pain, serious cases will also appear stomach ulcers.
6. Trigger hyperthyroidism. Anger disrupts the endocrine system and increases the hormones secreted by the thyroid gland, which can lead to hyperthyroidism over time.
7. Injury to the lungs. When you are emotionally impulsive, you breathe rapidly and even hyperventilate. The alveoli keep expanding and have no time to contract, and they don't get the relaxation and rest they deserve, thus jeopardizing the health of the lungs.
8. Damage to the immune system. When angry, the brain will order the body to make a kind of cortisol which is converted from cholesterol. If too much of this substance accumulates in the body, it will hinder the functioning of immune cells and make the body's resistance decline. When the body's resistance is lowered, any disease can occur, including cancer.

One of my classmate's mom, because her dad did something very wrong to her back then, she had been in good health, but she was angry out of breast cancer, and finally she made a difficult decision.
When I was in high school, I had a classmate who was very close to me, so close that we even went to the bathroom arm in arm.
One day during my first semester of high school, she invited me up to her house to play, and I gladly agreed.
As soon as she entered her door, a very beautiful aunt welcomed her out, when I learned that it was my classmate's mother, I was really surprised and envious, I really didn't expect her mother to be so good-looking, but also particularly gentle and lovely, even the voice of the speech is also soft and gentle, I can like her.
The latter classmates invited me a few more times, her mother every time to me warmly, during this period I have also met her father once, obviously see her mother and father affection very good, because they always look at each other when talking, a smile on the face.
And then, because my homework was getting tighter and tighter, especially in my senior year of high school, I had endless homework every day, so I never went up to her house to play again until the day the high school entrance exams ended.
I do not know whether it is because of the pressure of study, I found that the period before the college entrance examination classmates more and more do not love to talk, and sometimes will sit in the seat of the dull out of sight, and even a few times also red eyes, obviously cried the appearance.
I was very strange, also asked her a few times, but she always shook her head, refused to say anything. I took it for granted that she was afraid of failing to get into the university pressure, as a good friend I certainly want to comfort her a bit, said to her: all roads lead to Rome, is not the only way out of the university is the only way out.
If we can't pass the exam, we'll work together (I don't know how I could be so optimistic at that time, obviously I felt so much pressure, but I could still say something like that to comfort her)
But his classmate just nodded silently, still saying nothing.
When I finished the last exam, I breathed a long sigh of relief and just walked out of the exam room, I saw my classmates running towards a woman. I took a closer look and it looked like her mom but it didn't seem to be.
Because that woman was so thin that almost a gust of wind could blow her away, and also had a gaunt, melancholy look on her face, which was nothing like how I remembered her. In my memory, her mother had a plump figure and a rosy, gentle face, and I really couldn't associate the two together.
When my classmate greeted me, I recognized that the woman was really her mother, only the change was so great that I was almost afraid to recognize her.
I wondered how her mom could have changed so much after not seeing her for just over two years.
Later on, my classmate told me the truth. It turned out that her mother was diagnosed with breast cancer six months ago, and she had already undergone an operation and was still in the conditioning stage.
How could this happen? I saw her mom in good health before, and her face was very rosy, so how could she suddenly get sick like this?
At the time, my classmates didn't go into much detail with me, and I couldn't be bothered to get to the bottom of it until we went to college.
Because our school in the same city, but not a school, so the weekend will also get together. Once, when we chatted and inadvertently talked about her mother, the classmate suddenly said: Do you know why my mom got that disease?
I felt abrupt for a moment, wondering why she had suddenly broached the subject.
Seeing her look of seriousness and pain, I felt there must be a story here.
Sure enough, classmates to me slowly opened the topic, it turned out, in our sophomore semester, her father in a business trip to meet a woman (classmates family is to run a factory, so her father often travel to contact the business), the woman is running the business, not only the ability to be strong, the mouth is also particularly able to say, and long can be. At the beginning of her father is only her as a partner to treat, but after a long time contact, the two have mutual feelings, but also beyond the ordinary male and female relations.
At first her dad felt sorry for her mom too, and kept it a secret from her and treated her better.
But a long time there is always a time to reveal, and women in this area is particularly sensitive, her mother most also know about this, immediately into the grief, to know that the two have been quite good feelings.
Classmates father also feel guilty, promised not to contact the woman since then. But the feelings of this thing can not be broken, less than half a year, the two are together again.
Classmates mother long time to undergo such mental torture, of course, can not stand, so the mood has become extremely bad, every day thinking about the west, the temper has changed a lot, every time her father late back to think that he is with the woman again, for this reason the two often quarrel, almost every few days have to quarrel a time.
As time went on, her father got impatient and simply didn't even come home and filed for divorce.
Of course her mom wouldn't do it, and there was no way she was going to make him comfortable if he didn't make her feel better, so the two of them spent the rest of their time together.
One day, she unintentionally realized that she had a hard lump there and her hair was falling out in a big way, which really scared her and she rushed to the hospital for a checkup. The results of the examination made her sky fall, she actually had breast cancer.
At first, her classmate's mother still hid it, and forced a smile in front of her, but she was careful and soon discovered that something was wrong with her mother, and she bawled her eyes out when she learned of her mother's condition.
She felt that it was all her dad's fault, that her mom hadn't been happy since her dad had changed his mind, and that it was bad for a person's health to be in a chronic state of anger and depression.
In other words, her mom was born with this disease.
Mom was quickly admitted to the hospital for an operation, which fortunately was quite successful, and the doctor told her that she must keep her mood cheerful in the future, as this would be good for the recovery of her condition, otherwise it would be easy for her to relapse.
Upon hearing the doctor's words, my classmate was almost frightened, and she persuaded her mother bitterly: Mom, you'd better divorce Dad, I've grown up, so don't have to take into account what I think.
Leave that couple early, out of sight, out of mind, so you can live a long life.
Her mother listened to the instant tears, this one or two years, the reason why she consumed not want to divorce, on the one hand, because they are really not willing, do not want to be so cheap; and on the other hand is also for the sake of her daughter, want to give her daughter a complete home.
But now, after hearing this from her daughter, she knows that her child has grown up to understand, and that she should make a choice for her own health.
So on the day after the college entrance exam, the classmate accompanied her mom and dad to the Civil Affairs Bureau to do the formalities.
Although the family was no longer complete, her classmate didn't feel sorry at all; she knew that she would be her mother's dependence in the future, that she was her mother's hope when she was a child, and that she would be her mother's whole world in the future.
She's going to carry the family on her thin shoulders.
Speaking of which, the student took a long breath, as if a thousand pounds had been lifted.
I see! No wonder her mom changed so much during that time, so she had gone through so much frustration.
"So how is mom recovering from her illness now? Much better, right?" I asked her.
"Well, it's pretty good, it's like the whole thing has come back to life." My classmate said with a smile. She took out her cell phone and tapped on a picture in it and handed it to me.
In the photo, a middle-aged woman draped in a piece of sky-blue scarf stood on the beach, smiling extraordinarily brightly, although much thinner than before, but in very good condition.
I deeply wish her and her mom all the best for the future.
But surprisingly, the classmate's father and the woman after marriage is not happy, because the woman is particularly strong, not at all like my classmate's mother so gentle, for which the two often quarrel, her father regretted, had many times want to get back with her mother.
But think away the classmate's mother has long since let go of this relationship, she said that the one or two years experienced everything, has long let her see a lot of openness, on the feelings are also light, now she just want to live well, which is also considered responsible for their own.
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Now think of the classmate's mother has been getting better and better, she often said that she regained her new life has long been indifferent to everything, in addition to life and death, other things are trivial.
Therefore, we people ah should try to look away, think away, it is not in vain to come to this world for a time.
In fact, we know that a lot of diseases are out of gas, as I once tutored my child to write an essay, two hours past the child only wrote the beginning of six words, then I was really angry, on the spot to tear her workbook.
But what did I get in the end? The child cried, the homework wasn't done, and I was up all night, and when I woke up the next day my whole body was floating, and my face was especially pale, as if I'd been very sick.
Since then, I've learned that people can't get too angry or they're just messing with their bodies.
You could almost say this: anger is the biggest killer of our health.
Therefore, for the sake of physical and mental health, we must keep our moods cheerful, not tangled or wringing our hands, not to mention that we cannot live with ourselves.
Remember that life is your own, and your body is even more your own, and if you make yourself sad, who will cherish you but your parents who gave birth to you?
Not only that, but we have to advocate for physical and mental disease management, and adjusting our mindset to keep illnesses away from us.
So how do you get yourself to do that without getting angry?
One, try to stay in a good mood and think good thoughts about everything;
Secondly, we should know that nine times out of ten things in life are not as good as we would like them to be, everyone will encounter more or less bad things, think too much can not solve things, it would be better to face it frankly.
When we think that way, those hurdles that seem too much for us to get through, we realize it's no big deal.
Third, learn to reduce pressure on themselves, accept the reality that they can not change, optimistic to work and life.
Fourth, learn to vent reasonably, such as listening to music, reading books, taking a walk and so on.
Always remember this: the body is what you make of it, and nothing else is your business.
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Don't think that the saying "gas produces all kinds of diseases" is alarmist.
We often see on television that someone vomits blood directly because of anger, and then dies of depression soon afterward. Of course, there are some artistic expressions in this way, but in fact, anger is a very serious threat to human health.
A lot of people take "pleasure" in being angry in their daily lives.
At work, getting angry with coworkers and bosses;
At home, angry with family and children;
Inside, get angry with yourself.
When you are angry, you will find that your body is getting worse and worse, your fire is getting bigger and bigger, and you will end up hurting your coworkers' relationship, hurting your family's affection, and hurting yourself physically and mentally.
What illnesses can't be linked to anger?
1. High blood pressure, cerebral hemorrhage--Qi and blood rush upwards, accelerating blood pressure flow rate and flow, posing a threat to cardiovascular health.
2. Depression, insomnia--Angry causes the brain to be in a state of freakish excitement, which in the long run leads to insomnia and causes depression.
3. A-function disorder-Scientific studies have found that prolonged sulking can lead to hyperthyroidism in humans.
4. Liver depression, stomach pain-Qi is detrimental to the liver because liver qi is not comfortable and at the same time, it will go against the stomach, affecting the health of the liver, spleen and stomach.
5. Panic, chest tightness-Angry emotions, resulting in rapid heartbeat, easy to panic, serious induce angina, myocardial infarction.
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Chinese medicine says that the liver is the main regulator of emotions.
Emotional disorders first affect the areas through which the liver meridian passes, and illnesses caused by anger are especially common in women with delicate minds.
Below is a diagram showing the route of the liver meridian.
According to Chinese medicine, the liver is the precursor of a woman, and women's daily physiological activities are most affected by liver qi. Many women who are emotionally upset during menstruation are prone to symptoms such as crushing pain in the lower abdomen, fullness and discomfort in the coats of arms and ribs, breast swelling and pain, and headaches. Men mainly show low libido, impotence and premature ejaculation, pain at the top of the head and hernia.
Even for a short period of time, if you are in a stressful, anxious and depressing environment for a long period of time, the liver qi will not be smooth, and the spleen earth will be restrained, which will lead to a series of gastrointestinal symptoms such as stomach pain, diarrhea, and dyspepsia; and if you think about it, you will have a knot in your qi, which will be more and more solid, and will eventually be transformed into tangible tumors, and even go to the cancerous stage (Breast Cancer, Thyroid Cancer, Liver Cancer, etc. are all highly prevalent among the patients with long-term bad moods).
Not only that, the overall concept of Chinese medicine that the five viscera and six bowels are closely related to a long period of emotional disorders, will lead to problems in the whole body qi operation, and then spread to a wider range, triggered by a variety of other viscera, including the heart, kidneys, and other visceral diseases.
All in all, emotions and health are closely linked, and maintaining a good mood is crucial for us to be able to have a healthy body!
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