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What does it mean that the whole family doesn't have fox odor and the wife uses a quilt that smells like fox? What should I do?

I can see that the questioner is a paranoid person. He suspects that his wife is having an affair because of a faint odor of fox.

Marriage is predicated on trust. After the phase of love and understanding, one eventually enters into marriage. The consequence of collapsing trust is divorce.

In person, I am still impressed by the smell of fox odor, because there are colleagues around who have it. There are also people who have a very strong odor of sweat, which is not quite the same as the smell of fox. There is also an odor in life that comes from a smelly older sister. But all kinds of smells sometimes mix together, for example, people with fox odor also smell like sweat. People who usually have no smell on their body will leave a smell on their body with someone who smells like fox, etc.

Instead of making wild guesses, why don't you open into a published question to your wife and see if the explanation she gives is reasonable or not.

Most people who have an affair would choose a hotel, right? Who would be stupid enough to go to someone's house? Aren't there surveillance cameras in the neighborhood? Maybe a burglar got into your house and slept in your bed!

The smell was left on the quilt, and the mistress of the house would have been a thief if she had really had an affair, and would have washed it long ago.

The more obvious the evidence, the less likely it is.

There is something really fishy about this phenomenon. Because you should know your wife, as well as your family, very well. And with a condition like fox odor, it is neither possible for it to happen occasionally and then disappear out of thin air. That is to say, a person who has fox odor, he holds this phenomenon throughout his life. And you know that your wife as well as your family members do not have this ailment. But now you notice that the smell of fox odor has appeared on your wife's quilt. This does call for a lot of suspicion.

Fox odor is a smell that is very distinctive and characteristic. It is also something that people never find and hear about in real life. There is a smell that is very similar to fox odor can be completely, to the point of being fake. So it should not be wrong to say that when you smell the odor of fox on your wife's blanket, it really is the odor of fox. And to leave the fox odor on top of the quilt. Such as just to this room sat and turned around is certainly impossible to do. And also only when the clothes off the body. And cover your wife's quilt, sleep so night. Only then is it possible that the fox odor emanating from oneself, left on top of your wife's quilt. And retained for a longer period of time, so that you can be detected.

Then as far as what you have narrated now. It is also only when you are not at home that a person who is born with the problem of fox odor. He spent the night at your home and used your wife's quilt. So who is this person? It seems you don't know anything about it. That means your wife didn't talk to you about it. For that matter, the visitor may not be any other family member or relative of yours. Because if it was, your wife should have told you about it.

Then again, one possibility is that the visitor is your wife's close girlfriend. But this also feels a bit unjustified. Because as we all know, a quilt is something you keep close to you. I believe that the vast majority of people are not willing to share it with others. Even if they are close girlfriends, as married adults, this behavior is also very taboo.

And who is the visitor? And who can be naked and enjoy your wife's quilt? Or to sleep in the same bed with your wife? This is indeed puzzling. As far as the circumstances of your question are concerned. You are also deeply skeptical about this. Though everyone is saying not to suspect people for no reason. But now the situation is that there is an end to the matter, and the situation is also very special, and the point is also very clear. That is, there must have been a person who suffered from the problem of fox odor, had used your wife's quilt, and also slept for so quite a long time. This is how the smell of his/her fox odor was left on the quilt, and how it was detected by you.

So. For this you first have to remain calm. Carefully and calmly observe whether there are any other anomalies in your home. Of course in the conditions allow the case. From the side of some of your wife's behavior, some understanding is also a choice. And you should also calmly recall, your wife in recent times, there is no change and abnormal. But no matter how to do, eventually you still have to find your wife to ask should prove the situation. In fact, you only need to ask questions and listen to her explanation.

Of course, if she could give a reasonable explanation for this, then naturally nothing would happen. But if she denies it. Instead, she says you are being unreasonable. Then it just proves that things are really bad. First. Because the fox odor is too special to be confused, and secondly, it appears in a very sensitive place, and your wife's denial is covering up the truth of the matter. And that truth is certainly not something you should be allowed to know. So as I think of it, you should understand it very well in your own mind.

As for how to face to deal with. Then you yourself should first of all be able to do it in your mind. If your suspicions become reality. You yourself in the heart, and can not do to your wife's true forgiveness? And can you rebuild mutual trust between you two? And can you step over that hurdle from within yourself? If you can answer these questions, you will naturally know what you should do!

Since she's your wife, do you sleep in separate rooms? The second is, does your wife have a relatively good girlfriend? Third, can you be sure that your wife's parents and whole family do not have fox odor Feng? If all three can be ruled out, it would be best if you ask your wife why the quilt she sleeps on smells like fox? Let's see how your wife answers. Of course, if what you said is true, it does make people suspicious. Take a step back, if there really is a third party interfering, divorce, probably have to think about it. I would rather be a bachelor than a woman who is not a woman, a man who is cuckolded, it is terrible.

From the situation reflected in the title, your wife's comforter, slept with a third person other than you and your wife, which is a probable event, and does deserve to cause enough alarm.

But there are exceptions to everything.

When I was still working in the army, there was a staff officer under me, and when the couple had a crisis in their relationship, the staff officer's wife brought the case to me.

According to the staff officer's wife, he came to the staff officer's place to visit his family, and when he went to bed at night, he noticed that the staff officer's blanket smelled of a woman's perfume. However, the staff officer denied that a woman had stayed with him and that he never used perfume himself.

This situation made me think that it should be a probable event for this staff officer to have an extramarital affair, so I called him in for a talk, severely criticized his irresponsible behavior, and ordered him to immediately hang back and correct his mistake.

Who knows that the attitude of this staff officer is very bad, refusing to admit any dereliction of duty, which makes me furious. Since he is so unrepentant, then the organization will step in and find out what happened and then make an organizational deal.

However, after investigation, no trace of this staff officer having an extramarital affair was ever found. I brought his wife in and informed her of the results of the investigation. His wife did not believe me and continued to reflect that not only did his quilt smell of women's perfume, but even his closet smelled of women's perfume.

Later, after careful verification, only to learn the truth of the matter. It turned out that a few months ago, the troops to participate in the flood rescue, in a disaster point, there is a woman soaked to the skin, for a moment there is no clothes to change, this staff sergeant lent her one of his shirt. The woman later washed the clothes, sprinkled them with perfume and returned them to him. The single man, who was big-headed and didn't care, took it back and put it in the closet, and again had worn the shirt to bed. This caused the closet and the comforter to smell like perfume. It is assumed that the staff officer's wife, who also happens to have a sensitive sense of smell, triggered a misunderstanding between the two men.

The purpose of my example is to show that there are times when what you think is the truth is not necessarily the truth.

Therefore, it is suggested that the questioner should first remain calm in dealing with this matter, find out the real truth, not the subjective "truth", and then make the right decision.

It means your wife has bad breath, but what does that mean? It means that her body is not particularly good. I also have a little bit, in the summer when you sweat a lot will smell, usually basically do not smell. My wife also has it, the situation is similar to mine. But what about this?

There's actually a spray that works particularly well, I've been using it for 5 years, it's colorless and odorless, and since I'm not selling advertising, I won't post the name of the drug. Just use it all the time. I don't use it in the summer now and it basically doesn't smell.

Fox odor is natural, it's not like she has some disease that makes her this way. No need to be too nervous.

It means that your wife had bad odor of fox before marriage, which was cured, and now this disease has come back. Ask what to do? You accompany your wife to see a doctor again, bring more money, it is best to go to the previous treatment, that a hospital.

I work as a teller in a bank. The flower of the branch is pretty, fair-skinned and plump, but no one is chasing after her. They say she stinks, but I'm going for it.

After graduation I was admitted to a branch bank in Nanchang City, in the financial industry looks bright and shiny, very high profile job.

But once you're on the counter, it's like a perpetual motion machine doing business non-stop, we can't even stop, sometimes there's no time to drink water or go to the bathroom.

Last time two colleagues went to Chongqing to study, another one was sick, and I had a fever of 38.9 that day, and neither of them could take time off.

There is a girl named Li Zihan in our bank, and she looks different. She is 1 meter 69 tall, with snow-white skin, delicate and beautiful features, and although she is a little baby fat, she belongs to the very plump kind.

She's kind of cold, like an ice beauty, and I'm wondering why she's not being pursued.

An old colleague saw that I was a bit conscious of Li Zihan, so he told me the cause and effect. He said you want to chase Li Zihan or forget it, she is two extremes you can't stand.

I am more curious, which two extremes? One is that Li Zihan is highly educated, graduated from a 985 prestigious school, and beautiful appearance, her parents open a factory is particularly rich, she carries a bag of more than 30,000 yuan, with a watch is Omega 60,000 yuan.

What's two? The same bad joke. Feel it for yourself.

Our bank this year to prepare for the headquarters of the National Day party, I and Li Zihan divided into a group. Over time we became familiar with each other, added WeChat, and the more we talked, the more we got along, we both like traveling, food, and literature.

We were getting closer, but I often smelled a smell, if anything, kind of like perfume and then kind of bad.

On Saturday night I confessed my love to Li Zihan, and she was touched. But Lee had a twinkle in her eye and asked if you didn't smell anything when the two of us were so close together.

Did I say body odor?

Li Zihan said lovers need to be frank with each other, I haven't been in love since I graduated from college, all the people thought I was high and cold, but actually not. I fell in love with the president of the student union when I was in college, and on that romantic night, he suspected me of having a fox odor.

The whole department found out on day 2, and I felt so bad and embarrassed that I stopped approaching and falling in love with boys after that.

I breathed a sigh of relief and took her hand and comforted her by saying.I thought you said you didn't like guys?It's a minor physical defect from birth.

I have a friend who works as a doctor in a provincial tertiary hospital and he said that there is a small scar from a laser procedure, but it will heal quickly.

Now we have been in love for 7 months, double 11 when we went to fight the marriage license, my colleagues in the unit are particularly envious of me, so I married a talented girl with a rich family.


What to do when faced with a wife or girlfriend who has bad fox odor?

Comfort her psychologically and don't mind. Just take her to the hospital for minor surgery to get back to normal.

We used to have a saying here that if a girl has fox odor, she must be very careful and try not to let others find out. To the age of marriage, the woman's family will invite her boyfriend to dinner at home, there must be a cake in the meal, and this cake in the frying before letting the girl clamped in the armpit to cover half a day, and then take it out of the frying pan. After the boyfriend came, the woman will be hospitality, trying to persuade the young man to eat a piece of cake, the young man did not know how to eat the cake, even if the girl and the girl and then how close to the girl can not smell the odor of the girl's body, I do not know if my reply has helped the questioner.

Previously, there was a man in my village, daughter-in-law died, daughter of fox odor, as long as you pass by her can be smelled, fox odor is mainly from the armpit secretion glands out of the odor, normal people without fox odor sweating you in the armpits wipe a little bit of sweat to smell a little bit of that smell, it is said that fox odor can be treated, which girl in my village and then got married, her husband has this smell, her husband also fox odor, if you talk to him can be smelled, so I usually say hello and go. talk to him can be smelled, so I usually say hello and go, fox odor people should pay attention to what, the first to diligently bathe, love of hygiene, to be often sun quilt change sheets covers shoes socks, etc., you said your daughter-in-law does not have fox odor which is not correct, in fact, there is a fox odor, I think she should not be much love of hygiene, if you rule out the daughter-in-law must not have a fox odor, quilts are still fox odor, then you have to think about it more, the Neighborhood handsome ah, courier boy ah, waste collection ah, repair the toilet or other people whether they have fox odor, of course, I think it should be your daughter-in-law does not pay attention to hygiene reasons, so you immediately take action, the duvet cover wash face, the quilt to take to the sun, the sheets and pillows, etc. through the change, boil a pot of water for the daughter-in-law to wash, hygiene, love of hygiene, of course, also pay attention to their own in case it is your own stench, your sweaty feet two days without washing tastes like dead rats Not wash the taste like a dead rat 🐭, so they should also love hygiene, do civilized citizens!

If you don't have any real evidence, just admit it and pretend you don't know for the sake of family harmony Besides, your wife doesn't like you anymore, there's someone else, you can't block it, don't break the window, don't get entangled, do more on yourself, make your wife look up to you, depend on you, and naturally, she will come back, if you break the window, she'll not belong to you, to maintain a win-win situation, you're using it, and so is others, so as not to waste the resources to keep the family intact, so just quietly continue, just be open to the world, I'm sorry. That's good.

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